Idealism vs. Reality is a clash that many of us experience, especially those with big dreams, high expectations, and a desire for the world to be better. It’s the struggle between how we imagine life could be and how life actually is. For idealists, this difference can feel overwhelming, like a constant battle with the world around them. If you’ve ever felt that gut-wrenching disappointment when your expectations meet harsh reality, you know what I’m talking about.
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This is a simple analogy to describe what ideals are. Imagine a skyscraper being built not by a single architect but by thousands of independent bricklayers. None of them have the full picture. Each one lays bricks without consulting the others, adding their own touch, using different materials, colors, and techniques, all without an overarching blueprint. They’re all doing their best, but the end result is a building that’s uneven, confusing, and far from stable. Now, what if I told you that this chaotic construction process mirrors how many of us develop our ideals? This is often the reason for our problems, and it’s what happens when ideals trap you—because ideals are cobbled together, layer upon layer, piece by piece, and without us realizing, they can become invisible cages that shape, and sometimes limit, our lives.
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