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Mourning the Life That Wasn’t

Old Samurai Gardening by Tony Jarrah

Somewhere in life, a moment happens—a moment so profound and so powerful that it knocks you off course. It could be a very early trauma, a devastating loss, or the slow erosion of hope over years of struggle that makes us feel that feeling of mourning the life that wasn’t, even if we don’t know what that would have looked like. For some, that moment comes like a lightning strike, sudden and irreversible. For others, it creeps in quietly, unnoticed until the realization dawns that the life they were meant to live, the one they were born to inhabit, is no longer within reach.

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Fractured Society Today

Lost Purpose by Tone Jarrah

Fractured Society Today

Society today feels fractured in ways that deeply affect individuals and communities. This disconnection, which leaves many struggling to find purpose or belonging, is stark compared to the cohesive bonds that used to hold us together. Once, a shared sense of direction united families, communities, and even entire nations. Today, however, the societal glue has weakened, leading to an era where many feel isolated, lost, and unsure of their role in the world. This fractured society demands a closer look: how we arrived here, what changed, and most importantly, what can be done to heal and reconnect.

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The Power of Action

Action Tony Jarrah

You know that feeling of being stuck, where you’re brimming with ideas but can’t seem to get started? It’s frustrating, isn’t it? You overthink, procrastinate, and doubt yourself until the moment passes, leaving you with nothing but regret. The truth is, most of us have been there, caught in the loop of inaction. But here’s the thing: nothing changes until you take that first step. That’s the essence of The Power of Action, a simple idea that has the potential to transform your life.

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Idealism vs. Reality

Gen Z Idealists

Idealism vs. Reality is a clash that many of us experience, especially those with big dreams, high expectations, and a desire for the world to be better. It’s the struggle between how we imagine life could be and how life actually is. For idealists, this difference can feel overwhelming, like a constant battle with the world around them. If you’ve ever felt that gut-wrenching disappointment when your expectations meet harsh reality, you know what I’m talking about.

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When Ideals Trap You

Idealism by Tony Jarrah

This is a simple analogy to describe what ideals are. Imagine a skyscraper being built not by a single architect but by thousands of independent bricklayers. None of them have the full picture. Each one lays bricks without consulting the others, adding their own touch, using different materials, colors, and techniques, all without an overarching blueprint. They’re all doing their best, but the end result is a building that’s uneven, confusing, and far from stable. Now, what if I told you that this chaotic construction process mirrors how many of us develop our ideals? This is often the reason for our problems, and it’s what happens when ideals trap you—because ideals are cobbled together, layer upon layer, piece by piece, and without us realizing, they can become invisible cages that shape, and sometimes limit, our lives.

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Caught Between Worlds: When Growth Leads to Isolation

Leave The Past Behind

For anyone who’s ever felt like they’re caught between worlds, the experience is both exhilarating and isolating. It’s that feeling of growing beyond what you once knew, stepping into new perspectives, and watching as your understanding of the world deepens with each new experience. But there’s a hidden side to this journey: the further you expand, the more isolated you can feel from the familiar places and people you once held close.

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Breaking The Cycle of Negative Emotions

Chemical Cocktail by Tony Jarrah

Every emotional state we experience—whether it’s happiness, anger, fear, or stress—creates a specific chemical mix in our bodies. Think of it like your body brewing up a unique cocktail, depending on what you’re feeling. If you’re always in a good mood, your body is brewing a happy cocktail. If you’re stuck in a cycle of fear or anger, your body is brewing a whole different mix, one that’s more geared up for fight or flight. Understanding this chemical cocktail is key to breaking the cycle of negative emotions and resetting your body’s natural balance.

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The Color Purple

The Color Purple by Tony Jarrah

I see the light now, but for a long time, I felt like life had handed me a character to play, and it wasn’t a good one. It was terrible! I walked around with this heavy mindset, seeing myself as the “victim” in my own life story. And you know what? I had every reason to feel that way. There were some serious struggles, setbacks, and scars in my past that gave me plenty of ammunition to reinforce that view. If life was a stage, it felt like I was playing a tragic role, a character like Sofia from The Color Purple—that was the role Oprah Winfrey played in a movie with the same name, someone who’s constantly carrying the burdens of bad memories and pain.

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Does Honesty Live?

Diogenes of Sinope by Tony Jarrah

These days, it’s hard to look around and not wonder, “Does honesty live?” In a world that seems driven by spin, half-truths, and blatant lies, honesty often feels like an old-fashioned concept. We’ve all had those moments when we’ve caught someone saying one thing and doing another, and we’re left shaking our heads, wondering how common decency and integrity took such a nosedive. The truth has become a kind of rarity, something many of us crave but rarely see, leaving us to wonder whether it even has a place in modern life.

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Breaking the Cycle of Being a Fixer

Fixer Complex by Tony Jarrah

If you’re someone who’s always drawn to fixing others, you’ll know that breaking the cycle of being a fixer is easier said than done. It’s one of those things that starts with good intentions—you see someone struggling, and something in you says, “I can help.” So you dive in, you start peeling back the layers, digging into their pain, listening deeply. They feel understood, maybe for the first time, and you feel like you’re making a difference. But somewhere along the way, after much pain and suffering of your own, you start feeling that breaking the cycle of being a fixer starts feeling like something you “need” to do, not just something you want to do.

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